ASHFORD, lynette marie

I am Lynette Marie Ashford, twenty year old Pre-Med student and sales clerk at Victoria’s secret who prefers to be called Lynn.

Growing up was average? I don’t have anything to complain about when it comes to my childhood because it was pretty normal. My parents are Hannah and Kevin Ashford; mom’s a nurse and dad’s a lawyer so we had money but my parents weren’t the flashy kinds of people so we lived in a nice house in a nice neighborhood and did normal family things like game nights, chores, annual family vacations, went to visit family in other states, and they raised me to be a strong woman who can think for herself and who can survive on my own but who knows how much having support and family can mean to you. My grandmother died of breast cancer when I was thirteen and it was really hard on my mom because they were close. All of my other grandparents are still living and driving the family crazy as grandparents should do. My mom got a little more paranoid about the whole “breast cancer” thing once grams died but we have regular doctor’s checks to make sure there aren’t any signs of it creeping up on us so if, and I am knocking on wood after typing this, it happens again in our family we’ll hopefully catch it early. Other than that everything was normal.

Intelligent, Caring, Determined, Independent, Silly, Fun-Loving, Outgoing, Friendly, Quick-Minded, Problem Solver, Observant, Hopeful, Optimistic, Sharing, Loyal, Protective, Honest, Studious, and Loving.

Stubborn, Sarcastic, Perfectionist, Combative, Can Hold A Grudge, Controlling, Arrogant, Jealous, Impractical, Blunt, Disorganized, Suspicious, Stuck in my ways,Insecure, and Petty.

Shopping, Strawberries, Movie-Nights, Coffee, Chocolate, Animals, Babies, Romance, Dancing, Parties.

Bullies, Stuck-Up People, Disease, Pain, Boredom, Cleaning, Bills, Failing Anything, Nightmares, Lies.

Spiders, Death, & Loneliness.

I am getting into the medical field and working my way into becoming an ob/gyn.

Still working toward my goals, in a relationship, engaged/married, starting a family of my own, and happy.

Not at the moment. I had a dog when I lived with my parents though it was the family dog his name was Max. Since I moved into my own place I haven’t gotten a pet but I’m considering it.

No not at the moment I’m not. Relationships and me are complicated since I want the fairytale while still being an independent woman? I want to find a man who would take care of me but that doesn’t want to control me. I have a jealous streak in me too so being comfortable enough to trust a man not to cheat is important since I’ve been there and done that in the past and I hated it. I dream of love and yes I’m a chick-flick girl but so far I haven’t found my prince so I entertain myself just having fun instead of throwing the L word around.

I work as a sales clerk at Victoria’s Secret right now, I just got this job about a month ago but so far I can’t complain. I work seasonally at the water park too so in the summers I have two jobs which helps in paying for things but I also have my savings to live off of.

Right now I would go to Disney world? I mean come on who wouldn’t want to go to Disney world?

My great grandmother because according to family stories I’m a lot like her personality and looks wise but she had died before I was even born. She’s where I get my name from as well. I think it would be interesting to get to know someone they tell me I’m so much like?

I would be a spider, I hate them they scare me and I’m not alone in that fear so if I were a spider I’d be able to scare people? I’d be one of those fast ones though that move and hide too fast for you to kill them no matter how hard you try.

Moving things with my mind. I hate cleaning so being able to just think about something moving would help because I could just sit in the middle of the room and do it all with my mind.

My last boyfriend, I would just not date him at all. William cheated on me and broke my heart into a million pieces and I know it effected how I see relationships and though I try not to let it do that I don’t think it’s avoidable? I don’t trust as well as I used too and that’s tough for keeping a guy around when you don’t feel like you can believe he really wants you and only you.

It’s a tie between the job situation and the prices of everything. I would want to make it so that there were more jobs available so everyone stood a chance at getting work because so many people don’t have jobs but really need them. I would change prices because while how much we pay for things keeps getting higher and higher it seems the quality of products is going down. I think if things were more affordable then people could live more comfortably.

My idol is my mother. She is an amazing woman who works hard, gives it her all and is strong. She can handle anything, fix everything, and has so much love and happiness. She is amazing and I hope one day I can be like her.

It’s not a secret if you share it but alright. I have nightmares pretty bad. Not because bad things have happened to me but because my head is screwed up or something? They’re always about someone close to me dying horribly or me dying horribly or if not death then losing people somehow. I guess maybe I have a deep fear of losing the people who are important to me? Not totally crazy.